Two weeks ago I went to visit a good friend. She was housebound, in recovery from a major operation and it had been a while since we got together to chat. As is always the case for us, we talked about business - we're both WAHMs, creating websites for clients from our home studios. But what was different this time - we talked about working out, heart-rate monitors and healthy eating - mainly how does she get her boys to eat the healthy choices she includes in her regular meals?

Michelle at my son's birthday party - 2007
My friend,
Michelle, has been a huge inspiration to me from the first time we got together with our babies, over five years ago. Back then, we would steal away once a week to Starbucks, indulge in their high-fat, high-sugar, over-priced treats and teas, and talk about life, websites, clients and mostly, MOTHERHOOD and how much it transformed our lives. We only laughed about what we SHOULD be eating, or SHOULD be doing for exercise, not exactly the picture of health. The thing I admired or was inspired most about Michelle was her keen business sense and her ability to focus on her work, even amidst the ciaos that surrounded her on a daily basis (having twin boys can do that!). I am proud to call her a truly "good" friend!

Michelle NOW!
Recently, my admiration for and inspiration from Michelle has come in a completely new package, literally! She has made a huge lifestyle change in the past 2 years. Michelle is a shadow of her former self and looks absolutely fabulous. I highly recommend reading about her journey on her blog:
www.uncoveringme.com. Now, I'm not surprised by her transformation - Michelle is a very determined woman - and when she decided it was time to make some changes in her life, those changes happened! She has a lot of support from her
trainers, family and friends of course, and she gives them all props in her blog, but ultimately, MICHELLE was the one that made the decision and did whatever it took. And for that, Michelle, YOU deserve credit and my full admiration!
Now I find myself turning to the inspiration of Michelle for my own fitness goals. If you've been following my blog, you'll know I am quite active. I play soccer year-round, softball in the summer and recently added swimming and running to my routine. I've always been active in team sports - it's my preferred form of exercise. But lately I've noticed a shift in my thinking, and a shift in my fitness needs. Maybe it's because I recently celebrated my 35th birthday? Or maybe its because I know this body is done having babies and now belongs solely to MOI again? Stay tuned for future insights into my fitness shift...
All things change, and friendships aren't immune. You can always tell good friends from acquaintances - the good ones are still there to chat, even if it's been months or years. I have to admit, I struggle with keeping in touch with my "good" friends, and I hope if you're reading this, you will forgive me and send me an email or call! :-)
I'm blushing! You are right... our friendship has evolved though some common themes still exist in our conversation too! *hehehehe* Words can't express how much it means to me to know my life changes inspired yours. One thing I've noticed during this process is you do an inventory of the people who surround you and realize... there are some that will help you and others who were part of the problem! Glad to know I wasn't the latter!
ReplyDeleteOK, enough with the mushy girlfriend talk - when are we going to Starbucks again? hehehe But first, we must run together! :-)
ReplyDeleteCongrats to both of you!
ReplyDeleteMichelle - what an amazing journey! I've just spent the last hour reading your blog, and I'm inspired. You rock.
Corinna - you're looking better than ever.
The measure of value in your friendship to my daughter is priceless. You are a friend that make a positive difference just by being yourself.
ReplyDeleteCudos to Michelle for surrounding herself with winners such as you and Cudos for you, for recognizing a good friend through the crowd... from Michelle's Mom xx
Thanks Jenn - you and Michelle have a lot of mutual friends - you two need to meet! :-)
ReplyDeleteThanks M's Mom! I haven't seen you as much since Michelle moved away from us... Michelle is lucky to have such loving support from you and the rest of her family - how could she be anything but a great friend! :-)